Kilometer 100 Where the before ends and the walk begins

Most pilgrims prepare their body. Few prepare their soul.

The Camino is an encounter with yourself.

Packing lists will not prepare you for that.

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A woman pilgrim walking away from the camera with poles and a teal pack

Somewhere past Roncesvalles Day 3

He had done everything right.

A story I read on Reddit, as I told it on Substack

He watched the packing videos and bought the recommended shoes. He knew the albergue etiquette, the stage distances, the trick with the safety pins for wet socks, and how to dry his wet boots by stuffing newspaper in them overnight. By his own account he was as ready as a person could be.

By the second afternoon his feet were a mess of blisters. By the third morning his knee had seized up on a descent, and every step down was an excruciating negotiation.

What he did not expect was the loneliness. By the third night he had not had a single real conversation; he was in pain, and the thing he had dreamed about for two years felt like a cruel joke.

So he walked to a bus stop, rode to the airport, and flew home. He felt dejected. Utterly dejected.

The internet solved the wrong problem.

Gear, routes, weather, money. You can have any of it in ninety seconds, and most of it is good. Every one of those sources is about the outside of the Camino.

Almost none of them are about the inside. And the inside is where pilgrims break.

Three days is not a failure of will.

Three days is exactly how long it takes for the inside of the Camino to show up and ask whether you have anything to meet it with.

He did not. Not because he was weak. Because nobody had said to him, before he left, this is the part we said would come.

Two layers nobody films.

Spiritual IQ is anticipating some of what the Camino will actually ask of you. Not the distances. The inner questions. Why are you really going? What are you carrying that isn't in your pack? What might the fire of the crucible effect on the Camino call you to toss into the flames?

Spiritual EQ is what you do when those questions show up at the worst possible moment, in an albergue top bunk unable to sleep because the snoring sounds like a lumber mill, watching with tears in your eyes as your Camino Family walks on without you because of a swollen knee. It could mean the difference between experiencing pain and enduring it, between having the eyes to see a possible solution and buying a bus ticket home.

It is not about your religious or spiritual background or performance. It is about walking in with your eyes open.

The Meseta · Days 4 to 14

Ten yellow arrows Nobody put them on the packing list

Read them slowly. Notice the one you want to skip.

That is usually the one.

  1. 1

    Why are you really going?

    Not the dinner-party answer. The one underneath it. It's OK if you don't yet know the answer. The Camino will gift it to you in surprising ways along the trail.

  2. 2

    What are you carrying that is not in your pack?

    A marriage on life-support. A parent you did not get to say goodbye to. Ten years of sobriety or ten days. We'll learn to name what we're carrying.

  3. 3

    What is your plan for the first night you feel completely alone?

    Not if. When. The man on the bus had no plan for that night, so the bus became the plan.

  4. 4

    What happens to you when your body fails in front of people?

    Blisters are not the problem. Shame is. The Camino calls us to stay present in the moment, humble ourselves, and accept help when it's offered.

  5. 5

    Who are you when nobody from home is watching?

    For a few weeks nobody knows your title or your history. Some find that terrifying. Some find it the freest they have ever been.

  6. 6

    What might the fire of the crucible effect on the Camino call you to toss into the flames?

    What are you "done with"?

  7. 7

    Can you receive help from a stranger without paying it back?

    The Camino runs on unearned kindness. For a lot of capable adults that is nearly unbearable.

  8. 8

    What does your inner critic sound like at kilometer twenty-five?

    Rather than try to silence it, we'll learn to listen, then respond, no longer blindly agreeing as if it's the voice of truth.

  9. 9

    Who is walking the before with you?

    Not who is coming to Spain. Who knows your real answers to the first eight. The loneliness that accompanies you onto the trail can be greatly softened by finding community in all 3 chapters of your pilgrimage.

  10. 10

    What is your plan for coming back?

    The Camino ends. The life you left is waiting and it did not change. But you did. Pilgrims without a plan for that gap often call the weeks after Santiago harder than the walk.

These ten are the front porch of Spiritual IQ and Spiritual EQ. Knowing what the Camino will ask of you, and having something to meet it with when it asks.

Galicia · The last hundred kilometers

Four albergues, four Tuesdays Before you fly

Nobody should walk the before alone.

A small group of Wilgrims, people who will walk their first Camino, preparing together one evening a week. Mental, Awareness, Physical, Spiritual. One stop each.

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Week 1

Mental

Route, logistics, practical readiness. Clarity versus rumination. Why you are going, with a clear head.

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Week 2

Awareness

Naming and processing what you feel. Shame versus guilt. What you are carrying that is not in the pack.

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Week 3

Physical

Training, boots, packing light, health. Body awareness. The body as teacher, not obstacle.

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Week 4

Spiritual

Spiritual IQ and Spiritual EQ. The place of the wound as the place of the gift. Questions for the road.

Small group, limited seats. The next cohort is coming soon.

Finisterre · Kilometer zero

The end of the world You are not alone here

Let's walk the Dream Chapter together before you walk your Camino.

Four Tuesday evenings of teaching and conversation on Spiritual IQ and EQ, before you ever lace your boots.

When
Four Tuesday evenings. Next cohort coming soon
Where
Live on Zoom, with a private community on Skool
Seats
Small group, limited seats

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Dave Hall playing a travel guitar beside the Km 0,000 marker at Finisterre